How to Avoid Getting Dumped

Are you About to be Dumped?

Let's face it. Getting dumped is a real drag. The emotional toll that it takes on us can be very painful - both psychologically and even physically! There are many ways to avoid getting dumped. This article about relationships is being written by a man. But, the tips for avoiding getting dumped here are also applicable to women who are trying to avoid getting dumped by boyfriends and husbands.

Make sure you are not too far from her

The number one tip for avoiding getting dumped is to not stray too far from your girlfriend. If you go on long trips far from her or live in another city and don't visit often enough then you're surely headed down the road towards getting dumped. The expression goes "Far from the eyes, Far from the heart." If you spend too much time away from your girlfriend you can be guaranteed that if she's half-way good looking there will be a whole bunch of other guys lined up ready to grab her when you least expect it. So, if you want to avoid getting dumped don't stray too far from her.

What if my girlfriend is cheating on me?

If you spend too much time away from you girlfriend she'll probably find another lover. You'll interpret her actions as cheating on you but actually she's not. She's simply trying to satisfy her sexual and emotional needs that you're not giving her. So, if she's "cheating on you" because you're not there it's probably your fault and you'll end up getting dumped anyways.

Remember her birthday and other important holidays

For girls (and for guys for that matter) birthdays and other holidays such as Christmas, New Years and Valentine's Day can be very emotional and important. If you want to avoid getting dumped it's imperative that you remember her birthday and other important holidays such as Christmas, New Years and St. Valentine's. Basically, if you do not spend these holidays with her she will feel neglected and consider breaking up with you. So, don't forget these days and you should avoid getting dumped.

Give her small gifts from time to time and don't be stingy!

For some reason girls really like receiving small gifts. This includes flowers. You must remember to give your girlfriend gifts from time to time. You are not required to spend a fortune on these gifts (if so she's a gold digger and YOU SHOULD DUMP HER IMMEDIATELY) but certainly don't be cheap with her. If you buy some some junk fake flowers for her at Wal-Mart for $4.99 she'll think you're a cheap jerk and this significantly increases the chances of getting dumped. Even if you're down on your luck financially try to come up with at least $50 for the occasional gift at least four times per year. Giving gifts from time to time will decrease your chances of getting dumped.

Tell your girlfriend you love her

Telling your girlfriend you love her is extremely important, especially in Western culture where we're constantly saying "I love you" with honestly questionable degrees of sincerity. If you wonder whether you love your girlfriend or not and simply avoid telling her I love you you're greatly putting yourself at risk of getting dumped. If you never tell her you love her she'll start to question the relationship and want to dump you. So, if you want to avoid getting dumped at some point you basically must say "I love you."

Make sure you're giving her sexual satisfaction!!!

This is my final tip for avoiding getting dumped and is actually quite important. If for some reason you find that you don't want a sexual relationship with your girlfriend or are not physically attracted to her (even from time to time) this is a signal that maybe you should end the relationship. You must give this subject a lot of thought. In the event that you stop satisfying her sexual needs she will feel rejected and end up looking elsewhere for sex. By not satisfying her sexually you're putting yourself at in a huge position to get dumped. So, if you want to avoid getting dumped you must not only give your girlfriend emotional satisfaction but also sexual satisfaction.

I hope my tips for avoiding getting dumped have helped. If you think I left anything important out please let me know in the comments section.

Cheers,

Dawei888 :-)